— Soren Kierkegaard

Hi everyone Welcome to my blog,

“Amorebyshonadewal”……oh wait, I am so sorry I forgot to introduce myself………

So let’s start with getting to know each other first, let me begin again with introducing myself,

Well Hi everyone I am SHONA DEWAL a.k.a VARSHA DEWAL !

Oh you must be wondering about the a.k.a well I am sure we all know it stands for (also known as) but why is it there in my name ? And why does this girl has two Names ? Well so officially my Name is Varsha Dewal, but all my life, my friends and family have called me SHONA , so I went ahead and Named my blog with my more personal name, because after all aren’t we going to be friends too ? Well of-course Via the blog but that should do too.

I am a Graduate GEMOLOGIST FROM THE GEMOLOGICAL INSTITUTE OF AMERICA ( GIA ), I am also an ACCREDITED JEWELLERY PROFESSIONAL FROM THE GEMOLOGICAL INSTITUTE OF AMERICA ( GIA ) , I am also a Graduate JEWELLERY DESIGNER FROM GEMOLOGICAL INSTITUTE OF AMERICA ( GIA ) , I attended College at Instituto Marangoni in Milan for 2 weeks, for my MASTERS IN FINE JEWELLERY DESIGN, ( but sadly I couldn’t complete the course because I had some personal reasons and had to return back then, and of course because of this I couldn’t get my course fee refund either, I will surely share this incident with you in future over the blog, considering it was a major life lesson )

“AMORE” in Italian means “LOVE”, well I went ahead and named my blog AMORE because I love and believe in the idea of love, love universally is a rejoiced feeling, it somehow plays a very important part in every individual’s life, personally love for me isn’t synonymous to only between two people or lovers, love for me is your love and happiness for everything that you are creatively passionate or sensitive about, love for me is love for your family, love for me is love for fashion, love for me is love for jewellery, love for me is love for all things bling and sparkle, love for me is love for food, love for me is to be in love with the idea of life, love for me is love for your friends, and more importantly love for me is love for humanity,

So “ AMOREBYSHONADEWAL” is going to be a LIFESTYLE BLOG which would be including my love for FASHION, FOOD, TRAVEL, BEAUTY, JEWELLERY and YOUR VERY OWN WELL-BEING, it’s going to be about my personal approach and experience in life and my love for all these things, a space where I’ll be sharing all my views and my experiences with you and of- course my knowledge on these things and hopefully even learn more on this journey with you,


This is the first post on my new blog. I’m just getting this new blog going, so stay tuned for more. Subscribe below to get notified when I post new updates.

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B’Cause Baby You Are Gold 💰

Well hello there, how have you all been ? hope it’s been all good, I haven’t posted on the blog for a while now, and frankly I have deeply regretted that too, though August has been a hectic month, and for me personally the last one and a half year has been nothing but a testing time, but the last month became a bit more dangerous than usual and things got more real than one could have hoped for, though I kept myself regular on Instagram,

This particular post is to revamp a bit of fashion and style, since I haven’t really been anywhere for a while and I shot this in June 2021 and frankly didn’t get a chance to post it, it’s my take on your regular day blazer, when I decided to add a belt to it, well I have done a blazer look before in 2019( All black look with Pink Fila Sneakers ) , I am posting those images too, but this surely is a another take into a formally casual style, which I choose to not take too seriously,

It’s understated, classic and stylish with a touch of bold pieces and modernity, I thought it would do the apt justice to your regular oversized blazer when you mean business but what if you want to use it more informally, like I don’t like the idea of thinking blazers are only meant for office use, I find that entire idea too much to take, may be it’s just because I like to have a sense of your own aesthetic style, which frankly adds to the overall look and appearance and I like it to be a bit unfinished and more relaxed, because otherwise it looks just too made up,

You can totally pair your blazer with just about anything, if it’s a regular colour well then you can choose your desired style but if it’s more fun and bright colours, then surely choose to have fun with it,

On a social awareness note I would like to say that women’s role in the business world is highly critiqued, we have surely come a long way from the stone ages, but I feel there is a lot that needs to be achieved, the society looks at a woman a certain way and tries to put her in a box that they deem fit for her, which frankly to me is too much to bear, Eventually put up with daily sexist attitude and behaviour patterns which if used on a man he would find it demeaning and threatening to his position in his business structure, but somehow the ball game for women in the business remains entirely different, not only we have to adjust with our family life and live by society limitations but even our work life keeps asking for a certain way and outlook, a man can excel at one and sometimes in fact fail at both work and home, but a woman has to strike a forever balance, and that’s a sad reality of our world,

Photo posted on Instagram on 2nd August 2021 with the caption : // Amore-Chino 🖤🤍
// For an instance we were ready to write the best story and yet somehow we got lost in the unsaid reality of a unpredicted life that probably one did not sign up for and yet we stand at a point where being so close and yet so far apart makes all the right difference that one didn’t hope for, how lovely the story would be if it just got interpreted right in reality and didn’t only make it to scripts, when you see your life written away from the real and on a script or in a skit you just laugh at how probably you lived what you didn’t even choose to ? Right ? How is that for inspiration ? :byshonadewal // #amorebyshonadewalwrites

Going forward with changing times a ahead we must focus on how we don’t try to limit a woman in the made up world of male chauvinist behaviour and rather approach their take with equality, and to not objectify a woman or sexualise her only because we can’t match her strength and work ethic, sadly we live in a male ego bubble and somehow we always find ourselves dealing with men and their irrational egos, for us it’s a conversation or rather than approach, but for them it’s a battle of the sexes and we have to accept the odds and maintain our calm at all times, even when we want to yell, scream and shout,

So I hope you find this article helpful and the views stated are my own and my own take on women empowerment, I feel there is a lot to discover where this reality lies and when it’s business formals it becomes far too uptight and when it’s business casual it becomes far to extreme, somehow it’s all about striking the right balance and maintaining your grace, dignity and your demeanour along with your overall existence,

Posted on Instagram on 8th September 2021 with the caption : // You’re Not Me,But here’s the news update, you don’t have to be, so rather keep up with the Originality Instead !💰
// In our busy lives we can get carried away with all that is happening around us that we start even believing what’s not around us, keeping up with facts should be a priority, never get too carried away with your actions that you can’t redo them in the coming times, permanent damages is too much to tolerate, no one wants to run away from their responsibilities, while assessing someone else’s life see your own situation and take a better look, nobody wants to become a KABIR SINGH ki crazy PREETI and love that sadistic charitable and vulnerable life in reality , and pretend more than required, play a role but don’t start hallucinating and living a ugly reality, keep it limited to only skits and plays, screens, real life functions differently, be KHUSH in life but don’t get carried away by being sensitive, you may be a FOOL but people aren’t, sometimes the judgment isn’t on your actions but on your associations and that is the worst reality to put up with, a DISHAHEEN woman can make foul comments and threats but that’s what they get zeroed up to, fighting a real battle requires strength, it’s easy to sell your dignity but it requires far more courage in order to save it, life and people aren’t kind but somewhere god is the true strength and courage shows up, so keep yourself in check and rather than assessing others actions, assess your own and understand how to keep yourself and your ACTIONS in CHECK ! :byshonadewal // #amorebyshonadewalwrites//

Hope you enjoyed reading this article and found it fashionably social on a society awareness level, please do like, share and subscribe and you can surely provide constructive healthy feedback , thank you for your time, have an amazing day ahead ! Thank you ! 💐

P.S the black and gold look is shot in June 2021 and the black and Pink sneaker look is Shot in May 2019

Outfit details :

Entire outfit :Zara

Bag : Love Moschino

Sneakers : Fila

Heels : Zara

Sunglasses : Ray Ban


Well Hello there ! How have you all been ? Well hope all good, this is basically a MOMENTS and thoughts ORIENTED POST, where it’s better to be clear rather than be delusional and keep believing some magical Theories that doesn’t really matter,

This post is about owing your life and your existence while keeping the aesthetic of your reality alive, I have suffered a lot and been very vocal about that suffering and the past few days my silence bought along many questions from around, while there was a hush rush of those questions they weren’t direct, why though ? The fear of witnessing my WRATH ? Or the subjected callousness of just thinking perhaps that It would make me ANGRY ? Either ways those two emotions can become the subjected change that one didn’t probably hope for !

What I begin to feel here is that a woman can be dragged as far along as one wants as long as you can hit her finances and business’s, well you might feel doesn’t that go for a man too ? Well not really, because as a society we are somehow gamed to understand and fear a woman’s power, it becomes an instant reason of displease and men seem to think they’ll have a better control over her if they can control her finances, men loose a Job, but a woman losing her work can also be altered in being a losing part of her dignity, malicious games get played that way, our very kind generations gone by of powerful women stated that in the past, but now that I have witnessed it first hand I understand, it’s a good thing I have always kept myself financially, emotionally, physically and more importantly mentally independent,

The sexist Community that perhaps comes from the old stone ages may get a SHOCK after reading this article, while I have come to crazy terms with life and understood the reason of witnessing a sadistic reality that perhaps I wouldn’t put up with in the first place, and now I can more affirmatively declare that I DON’T GIVE A DAMM about being a open minded conservative woman who doesn’t exactly think that she needs to agree with a man’s terms, and if I find myself on a negotiating terms with a man, well I hope he enjoys HIS RIDE TO HELL,

This may seem a bit too aggressive, but it’s how a woman feels when she is cornered and forced to do something she doesn’t want to, and we should be kind to even some men in this case who go through this exact behaviour and not spare the one’s indulging in this mental torture behaviour, it’s a good thing we all are Build strong because of the Middle Class Values, but the world is surely a brutal place and the RICH and Powerful and the Nawabs of the society take the CAKE, THE BAKER and THE BAKERY in this department and madness,

Your body, Your Sensuality, Your Sexuality, Your Personality, Should be your power and not something that limits you on a daily basis, we may fight, disagree within ourselves but somewhere we all battle these emotions daily, it’s not what you wear sometimes , sometimes in a world of a male dominated attitude it becomes easy to pull a woman down on a foul trick of CHARACTER ASSASINATION, as the old books go, if you are a TRUE man with true intensions even if a woman is NAKED you would keep your EYES DOWN, it’s all in the upbringing and the ways of your life, and being a independent woman in a world that belittles you it transforms into a lifestyle, so perhaps it’s more about a collective approach rather than just becoming selfish and yet we find ourselves on the shores of life pulling and fighting through the tide to win what’s rightfully ours but not by being unfair but by being fair and just, it’s all like a silver lined cloud, it shows when it’s required, it watches deep from the sky and only appears with strength when the suffering becomes TOO MUCH to tolerate, it’s called life and by no means does it mean to be easy, there will be daily struggles and battles and you’ll come across many who silently will try to cross the line with you, but that’s the thing about being a woman, a woman can carry herself with dignity even when she is SUBJECTED for being wrong when she has been RIGHT all along, the rivers flow far from the east but somehow true power finds its peak, you want it to end daily and yet somehow we find courage to put up with the delusional reality of life, it’s not EASY because IT’S LIFE,

I shot this look in JUNE( 27th June 2021 ) , and man what months JUNE AND JULY HAS BEEN, but still we all have a long way to go and I hope we all can come to TERMS with our reality that we have all been living while some have chosen to go blind eye to these realities, not hoping for a PRINCE CHARMING or a KNIGHT in shining ARMOUR, well because in my case I’ll choose to be the PRINCE, POWER AND THE KING….ALL BY MYSELF !

Hope you enjoyed reading this article and found it informative and easy to understand what’s wrong with our society image and what can we do to uplift our community collectively, on that note you can LIKE, SUBSCRIBE AND SHARE, and also give CONSTRUCTIVE FEEDBACK, THANK YOU ! 💐

P.S this is a no Makeup look with minimal styling and the wardrobe is ZARA INTERNATIONAL !

Update : Instagram Post Posted explaining the emphasis of Don’t Go This Green ! ( 05-08-2021 ) // From “Go Green” to “ Don’T Go This Green” 💚❌
Confidence is Resistant !
// Well how one must wonder, oh it’s easy it’s what you embrace, somehow the idea of unsaid love is lost on us,the same way the idea of truth is, truth is based on 3 points, your truth, the opposite person’s truth and then the actual truth, and this somehow gives one the power to manipulate the situation as they might want, when I wrote “ Don’T go this green” it’s not a declaration of colour, the colour palate of green ranges from light to dark, it’s the signature colour of our nature too, but like all realities this colour also has its good and it’s bad, “ Don’t go this green emphasise on the importance and tolerance to choose what you agree with and what you don’t , by no means it’s a declaration of the colour, camouflage green belongs to our Forces and well Olive green here that I am wearing is a very honest and easily available green, so well there are many greens and well even your vegetables are green, my take of “ Don’t Go this Green” is a satire on the on going “ Go green” event and somehow it’s my take on how some elements of our society are the darker aspect of the colour green, like jealousy, envy, bad eye and in general disrespectful behaviour, so let’s not reasonate the colour rather just embrace the emerald feeling into our life without having tolerance for the envious Green in our life, it’s as simple as that ! :byshonadewal #amorebyshonadewalwrites

Dumpling Baby 🥟

Well Hello There……! So here we are again discussing another food post and my eternal love for Dumplings, oh how I love them, these one’s are actually homemade and not one you are going to regret, you people must have already checked out my Chilli Oil recipe and now here is a quick post on my fave pan-Asian dish that I fell in love with, so much to the extend that I wanted to try to make it and man it turned out great, I have followed the work and cooking videos of many chefs and this mind you took many efforts from my end to having to master it,

I preferred watching videos of Marion’s Kitchen and Seonkyounglongest ( if you haven’t checked out their recipes then you are missing a great deal of good food content, they create Korean and Pan Asian Cuisine and I sometimes find watching their simple recipes therapeutic, you can check out their Facebook, Instagram or their YouTube Channel ) and I was left more inspired than ever but I chose to try to variate this recipe as my own, and add my own twist and taste to these classic dishes, well it’s always better if the dish matches your taste and more importantly your palate, so while cooking that’s one or two note that one might want to take,

And some days ago when I created this delicious recipe I was more thankful than ever as I enjoyed every bite of it all, all it required was some dumpling wrappers, some nice stuffing and then ofcourse drizzled with some nice chilli oil, I also tried the Indian and a very popular version of the dumpling called as Momos, Though Momos have a Tibetan origination they are perhaps the most famous street food of all times, and it gets served with nice tang tomato chutney, and man it can make all the right difference,

The vivid idea of enjoying a nice delicious and loving plate of meal is that food can bring instant joy along with a lot of good vibes and specially if you are a foodie you wouldn’t regret a thing, it’s not an imaginary feeling but a more relatable feel of taking enjoy a hot plate of delicacy without burning your mouth, because once you love something you wouldn’t just stop right ?……hahahaha….. same with life I guess, but any kind of addiction is dangerous, and consumption or dedication both should always be monitored in limits and boundaries, that’s the beauty of enjoying a nice peaceful life,

So here are some nice pictures and shots of the deliciousness that I got to enjoy and I am also sharing the video I posted on my Instagram Reels of enjoying the first batch of these dumplings and then ofcourse creating this fusion and confusion at best recipe, they may look the same and taste the same but in different contingents they have different meaning, in my case these Dumplings or Momos are Vegetarian and a whole lot of veggies stuffed in dumplings wrappers can make a difference, though my mom preferred to roll them up in the round shape, the rectangle one’s are my Courtesy, I clearly wanted to have more fun with this amazing Dish, and I enjoyed making them as much as I enjoyed eating them,

Hope you enjoyed reading the post and of course the homely and very real pictures of me being a random dumpling eater, mind you at this moment my life was and kind of falling apart, but still I chose to look at the bright side and kept going with indulging in behaviour and things that actually matter and that one might enjoy, oh how crazy life can get and yet giving up just doesn’t seem to be an option, so thank you for the time you took to ready this post and you can definitely provide me constructive feedback I’ll be happy to receive any, have an amazing Week ahead, Thank You ! 💐

P.S this is a No makeup on my way to Dinner at home post, and my wardrobe is Zara International !

Chilli Oil 🌶 : An Original By Amorebyshonadewal

Hello There…….So presenting my very own experimental Homecooked #Amorebyshonadewalrecipe simple Chilli Oil recipe……Hope you enjoy watching and reading the entire Recipe……….up on the blog……

I love pan Asian cuisine and this one has been on my list forever to learn how to make it, I never really enjoyed the packaged ones and wanted to try to make my own authentic version that could be as close to the real one, I did check various videos of different ways of how to make a chilli oil, but I knew I wanted it to match upto my very own taste, after all, it should meet your taste palate too, A perfect Chill Oil makes a whole lot of difference to a warm Dumpling/ Wonton Dish or a Plate full of Noodles or Noodle Soup, honestly it goes with everything and there are various ways to make one, I preferred to keep it spicy, simple and amazingly delicious and added my very own touch to this very ORIGINAL Recipe, it’s not Plagiarised , or copied but my own very take, with spices and condiments out of your kitchen and to add the correct spiciness to the entire recipe by cooking the onion and garlic along with the spices, some spicy chilli flakes and a whole lot of Schezwan pepper corns, with some Chill paste and of course Star anise with Cinnamon Sticks, it’s easy quick and you can store it up for the longest period of time, but mind you it will surely get over quick…….hahahaha

Ingredients :

Chilli flakes

2-3 cloves of Star anise

Schezwan Pepper corns, or the ones you find,

Some Bay leaves,

Some Cinnamon Sticks,

Some Cloves,

Spicy Chilli Paste( according to your taste)

2 large Cups of Oil

1 medium Cup of Soy Sauce according to the consistency

1 Dish Finely Chopped Onion ( I have used the Onion part of the Green Onion, because it will add the spiciness to the Chilli oil, but you can use the red or the yellow onion as per your wish)

1 Dish Finely Chopped Garlic

2 Whole spoons to Powdered Sugar

A Little Lay our for Video 😊
A Large Cup of Soy Sauce and Powdered Sugar 😊

P.S Cooking Hack use an OLD NON-STICK PAN, so it would cook well and won’t Stick and have the required Crips too, remember to not Burn your Onions and condiments, Just wait till the Onion becomes Brown,

While serving the chilli Oil you can add Sugar or Soy Sauce according to your taste, but with my Variation it won’t be necessary and it would turn out just fine,

Hope you enjoyed reading and Watching this entire article and enjoyed this really Simple and classic Recipe of my Own, all Copy rights belong to me here……hahahaha…..but you can surely try this and let me know…..Thank you !! 💐

Some homemade Dumplings Drizzled in Chilli Oil, a plate full of Yuminess 🥟🌶
It goes perfectly with a simple plate of Noodles and a perfect Companion for Wontons 🥟🍜🌶😊

P.S I originally created this Recipe on 30th May, but waited a while to share it with you guys, hope you enjoy readying it and try your own Version and I also posted a Wonton with Chilli Oil Video on my Instagram though !

Vada Pav, A Mumbai Lifeline !( And Side Mumbai Style Bhajiyas and Bhajiya Style Sandwiches) 🍔❤️

Vada Pav and Indian Style Sandwiches Anyone ? 🍔❤️😊
A Vada Pav Mood Board ! 😊
A Close up of the deliciousness ! 🍔

Well hello there ! So how have you been ? It’s been a long time since I posted ? Hahaha no not really, the last post I posted was about looking towards the RAINBOW, though after the Uttarakhand post this was suppose to be the next post, but I waited this one out, I shot this weeks ago though, hope you all enjoyed reading the previous post and my travel diaries too , this post is a little off the charts and the first one of it’s kind because it’s a home-cooked( Maa Ke haath ka khana and also cooking done by me) in this case it’s cooked by my mother, so this one is the first of it’s series food related post, I have often posted my Food post on my Instagram stories and as my post too,

Hayeee Vada Pav ❤️😊🥰
Okay a nice yummy Quick Bite ❤️
Let me stare at it, after all food is my One true Love ❤️😊

Last year during the lockdown with everything shut and a sudden shock everyone chose to create our classic daily recipes at home, and one of the Mumbai specials is surely Vada Pav, Vada Pav is every Mumbaikar’s ( People living in Mumbai are often referred to as that) life, it’s often a joke that in Mumbai we have more Vada Pav then blood in our body…..hahaha kidding it’s just a Feel and a Vibe in on it’s own, it’s also been a classic recipe from my mom’s kitchen, and mind you A Vada Pav is a must for me,

So just me sitting and chilling with my Vada Pav 😊
Again Just !
Okay peace out ! ❤️

During the lockdown I really missed eating a Vada Pav from Anand Stall Opposite Mitibhai college in Vile Parle, these stalls that are there outside these colleges are very famous for their fast food, and they take good precautionary measures too normally, in fact this particular stall has been there forever, even when I was in college, I would go from my college with my friends back then to grab a Vada Pav from Anand stall, and outside my very own college there is a famous stall of the best Sandwiches ( known as Jay sandwich) i’ll speak about that some other Time,

This image was Originally Posted on Instagram on 11th April 2020 with the Caption // Home Cooked Vada Pav Kind of Saturday 🥪
// Swipe to see how happy I am right now after eating this street treat at home, if you have been following me you must be already knowing my love for Vada Pav, and tonight I finally had it for dinner and a Homecooked one even better 😊// P.S I am NOT wearing any MAKEUP here too, well after all I am at home, so just skipped the glam time🙈😂//
This Image was Originally Posted on Instagram on the 20th April 2020 with the Caption // My regular Day 💖🐼
// Clicked currently at home, Was missing coffee so thought of having some, along with some onion bhajiyas, yes you can’t get more Indian then this, evening snack as dinner 🧆🥤😊❤️// P.S Swipe to see more pictures and please ignore my NO MAKEUP look, I am as casual as one should be at home lots of love ❤️💋// .

So but obviously during the lockdown down last year I was missing this very important food, so I asked my Mother to make it for me and boy was I Glad, but then I didn’t have the green and the red chutney to go along with, which I made up for this year, along with nice and not so spicy green chilli,

Just me Enjoying a Nice Indian Style Bhajiya Sandwich 😊🥪
Indian Style Aloo Bhajiya Sandwich 🥪❤️😊
Peace out ! 🥪😊
A Sandwich Mood Board ! 🥪❤️😊

It’s a funny story but Vada Pav is vey easily affordable, it’s a often known As a Poor Man’S Burger and frankly it is indeed Mumbai’s burger, everyone enjoys eating a Vada Pav in Mumbai whether you are Rich or Poor, it’s a equalising element of our society, and all prefer to eat it from our classic Mumbai stalls, I once had someone say something really mean to me in a slang “ that he’ll get me to my Vada Pav ki Aukaad” which means he’ll make me a beggar, hahahah little did he know that my Vada Pav ki aukaad( status) will cost him so much that all he would want is for me to buy him some Vada Pav, but frankly I took it in a right manner and till date haven’t given up on my beloved Vada Pav,

Okay Vada Pav !
Just Being !
Happy Smile ! 😊

So Some days ago I asked my mother to make this extremely delicious dish along with some Indian Style Aloo Bhajiya Sandwich ( made with Vada Pav filling in a sandwich style only deep fried using Besan flour for coating ) and I am also posting pictures when last year I asked my mother to make Bhajiyas for me( oh they are onion, potato, spinach fried in Besan Flour ) and every Vada Pav stall has Bhajiyas too, you can eat it like that or with the Pav as you like, and you wouldn’t regret it, it was totally on spot and delicious, I couldn’t have asked for better, so here are some pictures of me enjoying this delicious food item and well I hope you enjoy my food story !

Mirchi 🌶 #greenchilli Yum 😊❤️
Look this happy while posing with your Bae ❤️😊
Just being like Hayee ❤️😊🥰
A close up into a Biteful Vada Pav 🍔😊

Hope you enjoy reading this Post, please provide your valuable feedback and this is a no makeup post but still not lazing around wearing causal and just being me, oh yes I am a big Foodie and my love for food knows no Bounds, Thank you ! 💐

Happy Dance pose is a must after an Amazing and Fulfilling Meal ! 🥪😊
Post Originally written and edited and readied on 20th June 2021 🌸

Rainbow Of Emotions( Moments)🌈💕💐

Pic posted on Instagram On 30th June 2021 with the Caption // It’s a Matter of PRIDE 🌈
// It’s an amazing feeling to walk into a Rainbow of your love and the possibility to witness and live the life you wish to, sometimes life throws a spin around and you just keep up with it, no matter what consistency takes people a long way ahead, not many can master that, but that should be mastered, life is a learning process, and while at it adaptability increases better results, and on that note here I am just being myself while celebrating the idea of life while living my daily life challenges and I also thought to take my old mask out for a spin, it’s old and worn out but could make a difference and while at it take Pride in however and whatever you do and live and create the most amazing life for yourself, keep some positivity alive, I know it’s difficult but it’s not impossible ! :byshonadewal // #amorebyshonadewalwrites
Sometimes it really Doesn’t Matter !

Hello there ! How are your’ll ? Hope all good, this post is surely a special yet not so special one, it’s on my random moments and of-course my feeling and belief’s In life and of course what I have been feeling and going through, the last few days have been more than unusual, it’s just me being me, but I have surely found a different way of dealing with things and ofcourse the approach matters, and all that kept aside I realised that some things and matters need to be dealt with the way they deserved to be dealt with,

Just Smile !
Hello there !
Walk into the Rainbow ( in this case a wall just used to specify the importance of walking into the Rainbow ) ! 🌈

Empathy, love, grace, kindness and Peace can only be an option till and when someone chooses the same as you, if not then it’s as useless as it may seem, because whether or not someone will have a change of heart isn’t guaranteed, and while at it we have to carefully learn to deal with things and only choose grace when the time and need calls for it, and most of the times these emotions are situational than most situation,

Ok !
It’s my irritated face clearly !

Conversational reality is probably the best one, it’s like you are living the conversation with an individual but nothing really comes out of, it’s all good in voices and words but it’s never put to use, so it’s sort of a negotiating agreement between two people till they come to point of dealing, until then it’s just status Quo, and somehow we seem to live this Conversational reality in our day to day life, and put up with the difficult To-Be(futuristic) Situation and ignore Fatal circumstances not only for yourself and your family but for many others,

Mask on !
Peace out panda ! 🐼

I used these images for the Pride Month ( which was last month) frankly the idea of celebrating a certain victory in the society specially the one that celebrates liberal views on Love only for a month is sadistic but it’s better called for as it’s more appreciation and respect for the deserving, while at it, I love the idea of celebrating love, and frankly my views remain more liberating and approach somehow is justified, the pride symbolism of Rainbow itself shows the possibility of a together and forever love and a love that celebrates all,

Tie your own Shoe Lace ( in short be responsible) 😊
Pic posted on Instagram on 4th July 2021 with the Caption // KICKING HIGH UP IN THE AIR LIKE A NINJA MOOD, Can you tolerate my MOOD ? 😉//💕💖🖤🐼
// It’s a reality that makes us livid at times , like the possibility of a fandom, like the possibility of creating their Obsession for the colour PINK and then taking the credit to themselves, like the obsession to involve their daily CHAI drama and then me just existing, it’s these little things that made my life hell( in their eyes) for the last one and a half year and man have I tolerated so many of these, you know they are a Fan because simple they can’t be without, their MERE existence is a JOKE to them and THEIR KATTY-NESS becomes more and more EVIDENT , and whatever you do it’s going to get COPIED or PLAGIARISED, and let alone you have to call them out for the silly behaviour, I refrain from that, I now have the most amazing treatment for these WANNABE’s and I simply marvel and enjoy at that reality, YOU speak on something that in their eyes makes you a better human they have to come around and start lurking and showing their DESPERATION, let me be clear, it’s not a COMPETITION, and definitely a one that aren’t WINNING at, the easiest way to my HEART is to be REAL AND BE A GOOD HUMAN BEING, which these days is a RARE quality, and while at it I couldn’t have made myself more clear in the UNDERSTANDING of the situation of my life, people love to earn some POINTS FROM ME, the worst is when they start to think I’ll let them take CREDIT for my work, ( In the name of being an IMAGINARY QUEEN of the RUN-OUT or so ) so I quietly WATCH and don’t let these things get to me, the DESPERATION is more hilarious and vivid to LIVE by ! :byshonadewal #amorebyshonadewalwrites

So here’s to many more words, and victories to come and of course the understanding the grace that probably requires us to be more well aware than necessary, we can never be too sure and yet we can never be to relaxed, it is a two way road but you can choose whatever is necessary and you shall find the Rainbow at the end of the Tunnel and while at it celebrate life being the Power, Love and Empathy that you can be, because clearly it’s not vanished yet and somehow these strong emotions does help us in our day to day life, while keeping your choices and your dignity in tact !

Pic Posted on Instagram on 16th June 2021 with the caption // Take Pride In Being Who You Are ! ❤️🌈#pridemonth
// Blended among so many colours, looking for acceptance for their Love, living through the Subjection of Society, the racial Slur, the insult and more importantly the objective attitude to categorised them, a yin and yang is assigned to all, so who are we even to choose whom we love, I stand with the idea of celebrating love Throughout the Struggle of being who you wish to be, it’s like a crippled love story for the once lacking behind, how can we even stop Love from growing and not finding its foothold in people’s life, this picture here represents the idea of not living in a objectified way and more importantly celebrating the idea of living through the kaleidoscope of the Rainbow peaking through the Dark shadows of the World, They Say Love is Blind, thank god for that, at least it doesn’t judge then ? So here’s to celebrating Love, as showing my most humble gratitude and Love, though I would love for all my friends belonging to the LGBTQ community that they don’t necessarily need a month dedicated to them, but it’s deserving because well the world did not make it Easy for them and Yet here we are celebrating the Idea of Love, so be who you want to be, love who you want to love and don’t let anyone dictate the idea of your life, well because it’s all about LOVE ! :byshonadewal #amorebyshonadewalwrites #pridemonth2021
// P.S I hope you like this little Art work of mine, well I wanted it to be blended within those colours…..//

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P.S this is a Complete No make up look and the styling has been kept simple and understated at best, because this was going to be a just Being Post, and I Used my Old Mask which is clearly worn out, for keeping the post at real as possible , that it’s been a along time but Corona is still around, so Stay Safe and Follow the necessary Guidelines and Precautions and only Step out when necessary, like here I was out after 2 months for getting some stuff !

Mussoorie: Into The Uttarakhand Mountains

At the Top of the Mountain just Feel the Air !
When it Rains, It pours ! (Originally posted on Instagram on : 18th Feb 2020)

Well hello there ! So have you all missed me ? Hahahaha I believe not……hahah just kidding, well with the Corona virus living it’s life and making sure India witnesses its Nightmare here I am putting this blog post together, well I thought I should finally get done with these pending travel post, the life before Corona, oh what a relief it was right ? The good old days after all…..

Take a Flight, Once in a while You might not Regret it In fact might find something precious on the Way ! ( originally Posted on Instagram on : 9th May 2020)
Flight OOTD should be all about comfort !

For me personally back in January 2020 a travel plan Included form travelling to musoorie after Shimla, it’s almost two different states and it took a total of 8 hours for me by road to reach musoorie from shimla, shimla is in Himachal Pradesh, whereas musoorie is in Uttarakhand, I always wanted to travel the north by road and witness its surreal beauty, I will share the videos and pictures here for you to know what exactly I am talking about, oh and the January time was a perfect weather to visit these places,

Sometimes, Just sometimes calm down, Sit Down and Observe the beautiful View ! ( originally posted on Instagram on 12th March 2020)
Oh Dammm…..Quiet Literally 😂
Oh hey Bae, Mom clicked this picture of me being me, and hey you can totally spot my mom’s sneakers there too…….hahahaha 😂( originally posted on instagram on 4th March 2020)

Though Uttarakhand had other plans for me, the weather forecast and the Gods definitely made sure I witness the Rains and Snowfall together and know exactly how it snows and get to see it, I looked up in the sky and thanked the god’s for fulfilling my this dreamy wish,

No No I am not going to Jump, but I am surely Walking Towards Something Unknown and I have Never been More Sure !
The View of the Mountain Brings me Peace, I left my heart high up in the Mountain Gaze ! ❤️
Boo- You ! ( doing a throwback year Ago post )

After leaving from shimla and travelling by road in our comfortable tourist vehicle with our very responsible driver as Thomas Cook India took care of my Travel plans and made sure I was safe and had my schedule perfectly planned, I reach musoorie after an 8 hour road drive, and man was I glad to witness the mountain life ? Well totally it’s the kind of place you take off to for some peace and quite, the mountain life isn’t for us city folks though because it’s slow and definitely different, and musoorie isn’t exactly an over populated place though, they are the simple people living on the simple slopes of the twirling mountain roads, I wonder how the hybrid’s from Mussoorie that have moved to mumbai from Uttarakhand turn out to be so bitchy ? Or is that a sense of insecurity or an inferiority complex that gets to them ? God knows what, but the people there are surely kind and friendly so don’t judge them on the bitchy entitled fools from Uttarakhand or the Mountains that you would find here( In Mumbai ),

Life before Corona, when I decided to travel and explore the world, and then the world turned upside down for me ! ( Originally Posted on Instagram on 19th April 2020)
Yes there,There is my Trademark the Peaceful Heart !
I am just Cosy here !

I chose the JW Marriott Walnut Groove for my stay while in Uttarakhand, I was there for a total of only 3 days and I believe that was perfect, because there is nothing to do there, expect for local activities such as mountain trekking or just some wellness centre, I specially chose musoorie for my mother and well the view from hotel completely made for the spectacular mountain life there is,

This was Captive in the mountain Resort while the weathers plays the spoil sport Picture ! ( originally posted on Instagram on 5th April 2020)
Oh the View, just wanted to flap my wings and Fly, little did I know what was sneaking around ! (Originally posted on Instagram on 16th April 2020)

Well the first day I got there was already evening time so couldn’t do much so I had dinner in the hotel and then chose to go to sleep after a tiring journey the next morning the rain gods surprised me and came in falling so I couldn’t do much though I still made a trip to their local market, and it was just about fine, and visited a Buddhist temple which was shut because of the rains but I still got to see lord Buddha and seek his blessing and turns out it did turn out for the right, after getting back to the hotel I chose to stare at the amazing mountain view covered in fabulous rain oh my the beauty,

Okay I am ready, did someone say Food ?……hahahaha ( Originally posted on Instagram on 12th March 2020)
Happy Baby Pose, when you find my this happy know that I am truly happy then !
I am not even going to lie, I somehow know what I know ! ( Originally posted on Instagram on 5th June 2020)
If I had a Bae would take him away to the Mountains when you would want to truly disconnect from the world and connect with each other ! ( Originally posted on Instagram on 18th March 2020)

The next day I was in for a more stern surprise because this time the gods chose to make me witness snowfall which I was totally craving for, oh how I loved watching the snow fall, my mom was superbly happy for me that the god’s were so kind and fulfilled my this wish, though it was a bummer for tourist because the road was blocked with snow, I still went to the market area, clicked some pictures and in the hotel had an amazing dinner, well the third day I had my flight so there wasn’t much but if you find the chance to visit musoorie and want some peace and quite and want some fresh air and closer to nature it’s the place to be, it’s the key for rejuvenation, of your mind and soul, I had the perfect company of my mother and nothing could bring more happiness to me,

Yes I was just happy to take in some Sunlight here as my face was frozen with the cold temperature, no it wasn’t forgiving ( Originally Posted on Instagram on 7th May 2020)
Snowy mountains and frozen face ! ( Originally posted on Instagram on 22nd April 2020)

The next morning after breakfast I was off to the Dehradun Airpot to take my flight back home as my Darling Nado, Tia and Snowy were waiting for Me, it’s such a fond memory, because I lost my Snowy( my Persian cat) on the 25th of April 2021 and nothing can ever fill that void in my heart, and these memories bring back so much and make me just have a smile on my face thinking of how my babies were safe in my absence back then, and now I have to worry of sadistic venomous vultures eyeing them and their peace, not the best place to be in emotionally, but I am holding up strong and nothing brings me more joy than looking at all these memories and smiling and trying to be hopeful, hope we all get through out tough times as at this moment the entire world is suffering and kindness, humility, humanity and Hope is the only thing that can help us get through !

Asian Food is my Constant for sure !
Dinner Ready inside the hotel ? Well no where else to go, but all for the beauty and calm of the Mountain ! ( originally posted on Instagram on 4th April 2020)
Break a Bread like Jesus and then say Amen ? Can I get an Amen ? Yes I know I am chubby…..hahaha ! A Pink Panda Vision for sure ( in this case food Vision )
Breakfast is a Must ( and the most important meal of the day for me )
Just the food- gram along with food- coma……..

Hope you enjoyed reading this article and found my travel diaries and my mountain experience helpful and positive, it’s an amazing life and place to visit, thank you for always being kind and supporting me, please like and share and follow if you like this post, Thank you ! 💐

This was when I was done and ready to head back home, mini who would surely find her Mickey ? Hahahaha yes I like to be childish as times….oh btw that’s a lot of luggage for a week’s trip but then what can I one do ? Blogger life is difficult, and serving looks and Real content becomes necessary, oh btw that’s my No makeup face,and I don’t care look !
A Quick Reel of my Insta Travel update of the Mussoorie Trip, you can check the highlight on my Instagram ID( Amorebyshonadewal)
A Quick Reel of my Insta Travel update of the Mussoorie Trip, you can check the highlight on my Instagram ID( Amorebyshonadewal)

P.S post originally written on 6th May 2021 and the travel diary is from January 2020, this is a Throwback Post !

Lockdown 2.0(May Diaries-2021)

Instagram Post, Posted on : 29th April 2021 with Caption : Ice Baby 🍦
// On a Hot summer afternoon while you seem to contemplate that have our ozone layer completely given up or have we surrendered to the idea of slowly killing ourselves to the idea of facing the reality, I finally understand wherever you look people are back again giving each other the required strength, but what can we even do, rather than helping someone lift their spirit up ? I mean you couldn’t afford to be a narcissist or shallow and only respect your own emotions while others peak through a dark glass, so here I am hoping that we find some relief in the coming times, my life doesn’t exactly give me reasons to be preaching hope, but then I just wondered that it wouldn’t hurt either, so here I am hoping and being hopeful ! :byshonadewal #amorebyshonadewalwrites #picclicked
Instagram Post, Posted on 1st May 2021, with Caption: Mortal World Trying to Find an Immortal Solution ! 🌍
// At the peak of the Golden hour this evening, understanding the unsaid truth of life, that while it may matter or it won’t, it will remain unexplained, 2 weeks ago when the world came collapsing down asthetic pictures on Instagram transformed into the need of an hour for some, I thought why not pay a homage to the insensitivity or perhaps lack of self assessment of some, empathy and kindness gets shown in action, celebrating suffering never transcends into happiness, in fact it’s one step away from inviting sadness, the Sun knows and remembers to shine, you can’t give up on your responsibilities and life goes on and we carry on, but perhaps what we forget is that the emotions and mistakes we carry with us into our future are or may be will become the foundation of our choices, so be careful and look closely into your own actions and rectify what’s done wrong, or the universe will keep going into a time loop, and all hope will be lost for those who probably were ready to try and drink the Unsaid poison of long lasting pain, after all it only takes a minute to destroy and become destruction but it takes a life time of love for building the foundation of life expected ! :byshonadewal #amorebyshonadewalwrites #imperfectskin

Well well well Hello There ! Aren’t we all already familiar with the Corona Epidemic that refuses to leave ? And now it has daily drama to provide, so last month I lost my baby boy Snowy( my Persian Cat) and well of course ever since then things were a bit hay wire for me, but then life goes on is what one would say, I did keep posting on my Instagram regularly though and I thought what better then now sharing those amazing post as my Lockdown moments and breaking them down just for the sake of Diaries ? Here is an entire collection of my moments spent, and of course my caption which are by the way my write ups as you all know by now I prefer writing and these are purely my views stated and my original work, hopefully people maintain DIGNITY AND DO NOT COPY OR INDULGE IN PLAGIARISM,

Instagram post, posted on 1st May 2021 : Mortal World Trying to Find an Immortal Solution ! 🌍
Instagram Post, posted on 13th May 2021 with the Caption : If it was a Armani, We didn’t Make an Exchange 👜🌸🌷🌹! #punintended #1000thoughts
// A little here, a little there and a very little everywhere, what even did we do to witness what we witness ? Why the eagerness to prove others as a beggar ? Are you casting your own fear ? Does the fear fathom beyond the lies that have been created, again an attempt to favour genocide by the result of genocide it self, what a shame and a sham at the same moment, talking about privatisation and money making machine Instagram is and then getting paid by your owners to use the same platform ? Has self respect and shame died in some people ? Why the eagerness for a ban ? Creating a controversy and featuring on digital news media in order to earn your livelihood and then crying over spilled milk and sometimes butter milk, regardless it’s a cat and a cradle that couldn’t meet the needful situation, finally putting it straight, well why not, you can’t let such scums breathe and survive when they have proved their ugliness time and again, not being political here just being a human enough and advocating humanity on that note I am glad to not be a failure and I hope that the so called man/men in our society are able to live their shame well ! :byshonadewal #amorebyshonadewal
// Posing with this Armani exchange bag that I purchased in 2019 for 10,000 bucks exact, oh my those were the days, we went about our lives normally, the stupidity didn’t rule our land, the non existent and fame hungry didn’t kill for PR and a pandemic or an epidemic didn’t think it was okay to be celebrated as a heinous virus that will keep multiplying since it’s conveniently Air borne and some are so stupid that they are saying we weren’t warned and didn’t know it’s nature ? :byshonadewal
Instagram post, posted on 13th May 2021 with the caption : If it was a Armani, We didn’t Make an Exchange 👜🌸🌷🌹! #punintended #1000thoughts
Instagram Post, posted on 2nd May 2021 with caption : Many Moods 🧿
worldlaughterday #smileevenifithurts

So here we go a complete synopsis of my Lockdown dairies which involved being busy with my day to day life, clicking some moments, not wearing make up, hair done up usual, reading books, watching series, and of course so many more things such as cooking (cooking series would be a complete separate post since I have enough to share) , playing with Nado Tia, spending some fun moments with my mom, basically making a lot many memories, along with keeping up with my work life and managing my finances for the possibility of the pandemic creating a havoc,

Instagram post, posted on 10th May 2021 with the caption : Bae 🌻🌷🌹
hereiamtalkingaboutmyself #vibes
myarmsarebigger #andiknowit
Instagram post, posted on 13th May 2021 with the caption : I want you to Remember always ! 🖤🕛
// As a person I wouldn’t ever want anyone to compromise on their dignity for me or stand in a questionable position with their integrity at stake, I don’t believe in parading someone on the beach on Diwali for an unproven sadistic point, I detest people who indulge in such behaviour and acts and to glorify this madness in the name of the public controlled image and PR tricks is surely folly, so next time take proper notes and don’t be DIRECTIONLESS enough ever in your life to indulge in such classless and tasteless behaviour, I am not exactly kind and forgiving with such actions, I will always keep the respect and decorum alive and choose to act peacefully and deal with matter exactly how they are suppose to be dealt with, here I am purely stating facts and making sure that someone somewhere doesn’t wake up and start gloating to others because apparently some would rather hide their mistake under the carpet, and then rather choose to make many which would be enough to destroy someone’s standing, but remember when such acts are taken place, god takes charge and there mercy isn’t just a word but a declaration, and strength becomes the greatest tool ! :byshonadewal #amorebyshonadewalwrites #amorebyshonadewalbeingwoman
Instagram post, posted on 9th May with the Caption : Eat Some Pasta 🍝
// Yes I know there are people dying, I know we are suppose to do something, if you aren’t doing something then start doing, without the much hoo-haa, Today is Mother’s Day and there is nobody in this world who would be worried about your food more than your mother, she will pester you, ask you to eat, cook your favourite, and nothing in this world will match to your mothers cooking, even the simplest effort and love makes a mother happy, and her cooked food would satisfy your heart and your soul, so Eat for your mother, Eat for your father, Eat for your family, keep yourself healthy and happy, in times like these it’s your health that matters too, and your loved ones couldn’t focus and highlight this more, stay positive, Stay healthy ! :byshonadewal
// And here I am eating a healthy Pasta, yes Pasta is healthy well because it meets the need of the heart and it’s been my eternal favourite, it’s also something I cooked for Maa and I don’t mean to brag but My mother quite enjoys it, and well so do I, my face says it all, doesn’t it ? 😂 :byshonadewal // #amorebyshonadewalwrites #amorebyshonadewaleats #relaxedathomelook
Instagram Post, posted on 9th May 2021 with the caption : Maa🌹❤️🌍🧿
// Maa my Beautiful and Powerful Mother, I think the one thing you cannot ever come close to being is just like your mother, well because I know no matter what she is the best at everything, for me everyday is Mother’s Day, for all the sacrifices she has made and for all the victories she has received the universe stands justified to her, I hate doing this writing about what your mother means to you, it’s like writing something that is more obvious than your own existence, I find my self at standstill and crossroads that protecting and putting my arms around her comes naturally to me, she often did that when I was a child, but somehow I feel that is the beauty about life, it’s full of surprises and more so ever Love, laughter and moments of peace and tranquility, which my lovely dear mother has instilled in me, my best friend, my confidant, my guide and more importantly my teacher, she totally took that part on ever since my dad left, and I am sure he is proud of the way she has stood so tall in his shoes…….hahahaha he always believed in her, only worked on for her to believe in herself, and well This Mother’s Day I’ll take a moment here and wish all the fabulous mothers out there who are actually the foundation stone of good and love in the world, as they say, a birth of a child is a Birth of a Mother, wish you all a very happy Mother’s Day again, hold on to your mother tight, worship her, love her, fight with her, argue with her but remember she is your Best friend in this world, Nobody could be her, that’s one reality to Live by ! :byshonadewal #amorebyshonadewalwrites #happymothersday #mylove #candidshots

This also involves getting in trouble for stating my opinions, being more vocal about my opinions and thoughts VIA INSTAGRAM STORIES , encouraging and accepting more hatred for that, along with some very usual to Unusual tussle with the cops, and of course witness my CAR PROBLEMS again as it magically gets some new problems over night ( yes I am aware someone is messing with my car since it’s on a road parking, and there is no camera surveillance, and I realise that it has been opened, no I haven’t filed a police complain, don’t know still what exactly I should be doing, since I don’t know the culprit, whoever it is, is definitely a wuss and wants to PHYSICALLY harm me,

Instagram post? Posted on 22nd May with the caption : Whatever ☕️⏳♟
sundaymood❤️ #realasrealcanbe #beaconofhope #lightoftruth #keepitreal #shinethrough #chailover
Instagram post, posted on 18th May 2021 with the caption : Don’t Craze Over Something ! 🥭
// I like how one floating thought wandered around so many minds, while it was dancing in the rain and getting some humour together, while trying to “kill at it” and along with it finding still “soulmate’s” around, one living thing and so many emotions, what could one ask for ? Was it “redemption” ? Or the “shame” of not living it through the time ? Or the vulnerability of your own fears forced to embark upon others, nevertheless I enjoyed these moments and just smiled thinking of how many hearts and eyes just silently watched and did nothing ? Oh how stupid of me to expect anything else ? Oh wait did I even expect ? No I didn’t, but one thing one can be sure off I am enjoying all these fabulous joys of pun and humour Thrown around, I like the vulnerability and more importantly the sadness, that a next to nothing living thing mattered enough to shriek fear into the hearts of the brave Lions, that today they find the need to Humour themselves ? How is that for depression topped with anxiety with a hint of panic attack, transformed into extreme Delirious Delusion ? Hahahaha it’s time to Smile and make sure it’s a Wide one 😃😁 ! :byshonadewal #amorebyshonadewalwrites
Instagram post, posted on 24th May 2021 with the caption : What Day is it ? 🤷🏻‍♀️☕️
// That’s how these days are passing,somewhere we somehow question so many things in our day to day life, our stand on various situation and outcomes ? The idea of behaviour, the retaliation ? This one month has probably been a more numb feeling than usual, sometimes life makes you question your stand and understand exactly what’s right and what’s wrong, there an indefinite stand needs to be taken, kindness goes a long way in life, but there are many that can abuse and take that KINDNESS for granted, I for once understood that the VALUE for life stands above everything, above association, relationship and many more things, it’s a dangerous road of realisation, but perhaps it’s more comforting, and the more closer you get to REALITY the far away you are from the LIES, a tiny ray of HOPE is enough to LIGHT your world up, we highly underestimate the power of light, and the power for love and light requires to accept the truth no matter how UGLY, or how DANGEROUS it could be, it is what it is, and whether someone likes it or not, one somehow in life somewhere has to answer for each INNOCENT life lost, it’s the declaration of nature and how the world and UNIVERSE works, these rules aren’t made by humans, I don’t think we are even close to being capable of getting so close to being justified ? :byshonadewal #amorebyshonadewalwrites #randomshots
Instagram post, posted on 18th May 2021 with the caption : Don’t Craze Over Something ! 🥭
Instagram post, posted on 24th May 2021 with the caption : What Day is it ? 🤷🏻‍♀️☕️
Instagram post, posted on 28th May 2021 with the caption : Tea Conversations……..☕️💫
// I find it absolutely appalling when I find people who abuse the right to being a Fool, like in the case of reference of calling a community as a terrorist or creating religious Racism, I find the oppressions on the Muslim community wrong on so Many levels but I also understand the councils dilemma of dealing with them, I have personally faced( and still face) racism from (Some)Muslims in my area when I spoke about the harassment I have been suffering because of the Local Area MLA, and he for some reason exploits his religion and abuses his power on the majority of his communist boys and followers, but at the same time there are many of them who are kind and respectful, I have even got eve teased and harassed and what not, and I wondered why the idea of bringing up and grouping and collecting his caste boys only ? Why the discrimination ? I then understood, this is what happens with terrorism, we never understand who is who and they camouflage around the innocent and ask us to make a choice, I think this Community needs a Council to act upon its action so that something can be done sooner and people aren’t left confused in wondering what side to Choose, after all choosing Diplomacy when the terror threat is real is absolute stupidity and it’s not one I would advice, I am all for maintaining peace, but I am not one to forgive wrong doings, and surely Religion or religious discrimination isn’t going to stop me from doing what’s right, because as you all know by now I am secular in my beliefs and humanity stands above everything, but stupidity has no place in my life ! :byshonadewal #amorebyshonadewalwrites

I have also got a new bunch of people giving me threats that just doesn’t make any sense, and of course a complete roller coaster life, Basically one month and many emotions, and don’t even ask me about vaccination as I have completely ignored that process and like any other citizen waiting along with lines,

Instagram post, posted on 17th May 2021 with the caption : Drenched In the Rain of Time ⛈☔️🌊
// While the Cyclone tries to find it’s way within the Arabian Sea it’s the intense feeling of Shudder that we witness, it’s times like these that mark the end and the beginnings of many things, after all end is the beginning, Nature somehow always finds it’s way, all we can do as mere mortals is just Bow and respect and offer our prayers and wait, what else can one expect ? Can one even challenge nature and it’s course of time ? What is ? What was ? And perhaps What will be ? Only time could tell, till then all we can do is get drenched in the reality of the love that lies within hope ! :byshonadewal
// I decided to enjoy the rains in my balcony and got some clicks while keeping it natural with my hair drenched with this windy rain, and being in sync with the reality of life, which by now should be the perfect chosen lifestyle, it’s perhaps what one needs to do, given the hour of time and the situation we find ourselves in ? :byshonadewal // #amorebyshonadewalwrites
(P.S these Photos are Cyclone Sarcasm at best, please don’t think too much )
Instagram post, posted on 18th May 2021 with the caption : Glorious 🌹🍎
arosefrommygarden #monsoonseason #flowersblooming #flowersbloomwhileitrains #prespectivematters #innovationrequiresourperspective #positivityisalifestyle #positivityisnotignorance

Nobody is important and every life matters, this statements itself is a tragedy waiting to peak through, as we enter a new month with a series of a lot of emotions and preparing for the rains, I find myself at the crossroads of emotions that nothing will ever be the same, and whatever takes turns and vibes in the future will purely depend on the actions and judgments made today, of course sharing your activities and keeping it real is surely the motto, so here I am keeping it aesthetic and as real as possible with my hair let down and keeping the FASHION AND STYLE natural and more DAY-To-Day life, where it’s all about simplicity and COMFORT, with ELEGANCE OF-course and not capitalising of any situation and being of good use , so yes a lot of emotions and not many to state, if you ever miss me, you can check my Instagram, I am very regular there and update as much as I can and when I can as I have a life ahead of the social media too !

Instagram post, posted on 23rd May 2021, with the caption : Power-Bowl 🍉♟
// I think the idea of life is highly subjective to the idea of actually living it, we somehow contemplate of what could be a little more than it should be, it’s never too late to rectify what’s done wrong, but sometimes it takes a lifetime to come to terms with the reality of our own truth, that’s why one must first find peace with being who they actually are, good, bad or ugly, it is, indeed what it is , and it becomes highly stupid to ignore something that is rather more obvious than usual ! :byshonadewal #amorebyshonadewalwrites #sundaythoughts #fruitbowl
pyjamastyle #nomakeuplook
Instagram post, posted on 23rd May 2021, with the caption : Power-Bowl 🍉♟

Hope you enjoy this post, and pictures with my Instagram captions along with it, it does perfect justice to the whole idea of reality chosen and understood ! Thank you ! 💐

Instagram post, posted on 29th May 2021 with the caption : Coffee ☕️
coldbrew #itsavibe
// These days with everything going around, I am more sure of what I want and how I want it to be rather than just contemplating of the perspective nature, defamation becomes a highly subjective adjective when life is at stake, most people in our country exploit the basis of a defamatory statement, yes the public lashing and outlandish slurs can kill someone personally and professionally, but can we all agree that defamation case is nothing but a joke in our country, a by law created by many in order to somehow twiddle through the reality of resorting to law measures ? If that was the case I by now would have sued many, over the conjectures and rumours created, I choose to treat them with the same treatment they are giving, If someone thinks they can get away with defaming and creating a public outlook and see me not react ? Wait for it then, while I bring the party to you, so yes I will gladly accept a defamation case and answer it, and even get one case on someone, but only after thoroughly defaming the one that didn’t think about how their actions would affect my personal and professional life, I prefer to be a peace loving person and act with diplomacy, but I am not stupid to forgive and ignore life altering actions of an individual ! :byshonadewal #amorebyshonadewalwrites
Instagram post, posted on 29th May 2021 with the caption : Coffee ☕️
coldbrew #itsavibe
Instagram post, posted on 26th May 2021 with the caption : My Early Morning Bliss 🌷🌸🌞
// While I gaze out of the window this morning after witnessing the beautiful full moon, I wonder what even has life come to ? Have we become so vulnerable as human beings that we find the need to harm innocent ? Or was it just the comfort of our homes and our limited life knowledge that shielded us from the ugly world ? Have we exposed ourselves to some unknown threat ? Or Was the unknown threat lurking around all along ? You know somehow we get the impression animals can’t speak so we can’t hear them ? Can they sense the danger to their loved one’s ? Yes indeed and that makes them attracted to the psychos of the society, that’s why they can catch the ones that mean you harm sooner than anyone else , it’s not like I am not watching, it’s not like I am not attentive, but I definitely believe that I’ll gladly allow them to follow their instincts, I choose my love and my responsibility above everything as I know and am aware of what needs me and what doesn’t, it’s somehow the usual choices we make, I saw another life break one day at a time and screaming for help, that’s not going to be the case ever again or around, it’s simple I don’t know what moved, what changed but surely I have learnt that people somehow cannot live their own torture and reality, and for some reason I relish that feeling, it’s satisfying and I choose the path of truth because it may be difficult but it’s surely wakes up many along, and on that note wish you all a very Good Morning ! :byshonadewal #amorebyshonadewalwrites

Shimla : Queen of the Hills( oh Btw Happy Earth Day ! 🌍❤️🌹

Frozen Face ❄️
We look at each Other While it Matter !

Well hello there people ! How have you guys been ? Hope everything is treating you guys well and life’s being good ? Well life isn’t going to be just smooth ? Is it ? No right but can we make most of the time that is granted to us ? Well hell yeah ! While at let’s go into a flash back and state what actually matters ? Well ya throwback to a year ago, when I decided to celebrate my birthday(25th Jan 2020) up high in the Himalayan hills, as memorable it has been it also shaped me into the person I am today, which is anything but easy……..hahahahaha

Oh hello there !
Ok I got to the Mountain !
A good breakfast Never Hurt No One !
Chai !

So well I chose shimla for its beauty and frankly I travelled there as a child, I wanted to take my mother to shimla since she never went to shimla, my bucket list for 2020 involved travelling around India, well life had obviously different plans for me, my life still requires me to put my foot down and stay homebound,

Oh Hi there 🌹
Pink Candy Floss Clouds !
A whole lot of Pink ! 🌸
Somewhere peaking through !
A Small little girl in the Big thundering World 🌸🤍

Well my arrival in the snow capped mountains and the lovely Oberoi Wildflower hall shimla was anything but a quick trip, since it took quite a lot of time to get there, and I enjoyed every bit of my road trip with my mother, it was peace and calmness, which is what I exactly needed, my life knew better, as the pandemic bought a lot of personal struggles for me, my 29 definitely warned me and got me my much required peace and calmness that helped me through out the 2020, my beautiful experience shaped me into the marvellous person I am today ?…..hahaha ya 10 years of experience brings this and I can comment and promise that I am still learning,

Okay I Got this one, Thanks, and oh BTW it was worth all the Trouble !
What an amazing and sweet Gesture ! (By the hotel ofcourse……hahahaha )
Happy fucking congratulations Birthday to Me 😂🤣

Shimla is a quite and quaint city, it’s famous for its natural beauty and I can guarantee it did not disappoint me, it was every bit the Marvel and wonder I expected it to be, great people, kind helpful and smiling faces and great hospitality, in one word I wasn’t disappointed by the amazing Queen of the Hills !

The Walk Of life !
Yeah yeah I am little person !
Nothing Better Than Snow Caped Mountains !
Ok hi There !

My fashion choice was ofcourse fashionable yet comfortable and yes I wasn’t the only one who resorted to long comfy coats, but I saw quite a crowd that stood out, although my all white look to the market stole the show…..hahahaha I had quite the look on…..well I am sure by now you all know my love for all white, though I celebrated my birthday in my house before leaving for Shimla,

You know This is What I Look at you like ? Right ?
Just some Deets !
Oh look !
So this is Shimla’s famous Mall Road, I don’t regret this Trip One Beat !
Little Shona Shining Bright in the Sun 🌸❄️
No I am not waiting for anyone, was just on my way for dinner so thought to get some clicks !
White and so much more White for my 29th which was last year !
Whoever Said you Can’t wear your Pyjamas Out ! 🤍
A nice glass of wine and Pasta, is what gets me everytime ! ❤️

I chose an all white outfit both times, and later I did invite some controversy too, so here is post my look and the pictures of the absolute picturesque Shimla which has a Mall Road to shopping for locals and great atmosphere, it’s the kind of place you should be in when you want to get in sync with yourself and nature, it’s beautiful, clam and amazing, a different life from the city life,

Somewhere in The woods !
Oh hi Up in the Moutains !
Yes I did get there, and what a view, oh btw this is a really famous lord Hanuman’s temple with the tallest statue there, as you can see the statue peaking through in the previous picture !
Blue clouds and Small tiny houses ! That’s Shimla for you, but the people out there are quite nice !
Candy Floss Dreams !🌷🍦
The famous Shimla Church, though I didn’t get to visit because when I went it was Shut ! 🤍

These trips are more like a trip you would take for the amazing beauty of the mountains, a road trip that was pending, the understanding of my heart was lurking for, was it the roses or the thorns that would make it to my life ? The moment of understanding for contemplation, and frankly It didn’t disappoint, I was ready to take on my life and I had a better understanding of my heart and my choices, and I can happily say I have turned 30( This Year ) with NO REGRETS of the choices I have made, they have been tricky, but nevertheless soothing, which has bought me a lot of personal peace to my heart, I am glad I have found what I was looking for, and probably have a better understanding in the matter of heart and the battle of the heart and the head,

Yes I saw that, and let me tell you I don’t care !
You better be as good as this Wine, or otherwise it would just be other way !
What a View !
Looking At You Like ! ❄️🤍
In the woods !
This was the Most terrible Experience of my life, I came sliding down the ice mountain, thankfully a nice kind man held my hand tight and caught on to me the last minute, I only did this for my mother, she just wouldn’t resist the idea of not going up on the mountain, it was slippery at its best, but all’s well that ends well, but this picture is clicked on the 26th of Jan a day after my 29th birthday and well what can I say I did not Die, still breathing, and hopefully hopeful !
This was my Outfit when I went up high in the Mountains !
Somewhere !

PRO-TIP : what’s yours will always remain yours, don’t fret and don’t regret, today’s struggle will mark the amazing sunlight and sunshine awaiting you at the end of this ugly chapter of life, a trip to the mountains bought a lot of peace to me, and I definitely left my heart somewhere in the mountains, may be now the mountain could bring me those amazing Roses…………hahahahah doesn’t hurt to expect love from this amazing puzzle called life ! 💓

P.S Originally written on 23rd of January 2021

My last Day in shimla !
Aye aye !
It was a good stay ! Thank you Shimla 🤍❄️🌸❤️


Well hello there, so here we go again, it’s March 2021 and we are entering another lockdown due to Miss or Mr Corona, the pandemic surely pulled a hard and a score on people by suddenly surprising them that while take became easy going, Corona decided to multiply, all that said Aside I frankly feel it takes a huge toll on people and their financial state while Corona lurks around,

Smile like a flower and Bloom 🌷☘️🍀
Watch while you can ! 👀☘️🍀

I have been Missing in Action well because I caught food poisoning and had to rest at home for 3 full days, I have literally not taken so much rest before, definitely not having the best of my health scene, while at it I promoted a post on Instagram and all hell broke loose, because apparently the post seemed Sexy ? And kind of accentuated my Body, I wonder where were all these people the last year when I literally went through living hell and nobody found one single fault back then, Apparently Booty is a problem, oh and also A hint of your Bra showing is, but some section of the society found it absolutely normal in targeting the Booty back in February 2020 and commenting on a woman’s cleavage ? Was that even ok ?

I posted this picture originally on the 17th September 2020 with the caption // Oh My ! 🐚🌷🕊#followersdoesntsignifytalent
// When VANITY becomes an ADDICTION And FAME becomes a LIFESTYLE, COMPASSION jumps out of the WINDOW and you are left to wonder ARE WE ALL on SOCIAL media just for EARNING FOLLOWERS, does our WORDS and EFFORTS mean nothing, ARE WE ALL puppet to the FAME psychology, where the RICH whenever QUESTIONED speak about FOLLOWERS and the MEDIOCRE honest living person is made to look like the BEGGAR (GAREEB) on the street ? I mean what has life even come too ? How will The silently watching and patiently judging MIDDLE CLASS and LOWER MIDDLE CLASS ever last these harsh words or REALITY DEFAMATION ? CAN YOU EVEN give a REALITY check to the person who fails to SEE AHEAD OF HIS OR HER POWER ? I wonder………:byshonadewal #amorebyshonadewalwrites//
Nature aha ! 💚☘️🍃

As usual I haven’t payed any heed to such Garbage, because well frankly it’s Garbage and Garbage should be tossed outside, rather than collecting it, I keep myself sorted under all circumstances, I don’t find the need to justify myself in any god dam way,

Eye Contact ! 👀🌷🦋
It’s a reality ! ☁️☘️

A woman/Women in the society somehow find themselves being questioned each day on their actions, their body or their sexuality, we celebrate women’s sexuality and at the same time look down upon it, when men lurch on a woman nobody thinks what it does to her, but when the same woman finds foothold in the boldness she starts to get questioned, comfort should always be an option for every woman, and giving her the right to freedom shouldn’t be a choice which has to be made, instead we live in a free world and freedom was, is and will always be a choice, anyone who tries to curb that freedom should be punished,

On somedays Just ! 😌

Asking a woman to adjust with you for work purpose is nothing but exploitation, buying a woman’s body and soul isn’t sex trade then what is ? Promising success to a woman instead of her body is like giving her a poison and having sex with her living corpse, many woman find their solace in such acts, some find thrill, but to some it’s unbearable, asking a woman to give up her power and adjust with the shame of a Man’s glorified Penis isn’t Manhood, so if a woman is dealing with something like that, well then you know what it is, no woman wishes to have a man on top of her body who would say to her if you agree with me I’ll give you the world, might as well live in that world alone,

You’ll Laugh when Something is Funny 😁😊🤗
Don’t get Distracted ! ☘️

Where as the lockdown is concerned I have very less to say there but I’ll finally choose to say, a Weekend lockdown was the first to occur to me, COVID cases need to be controlled because the doors to travelling hasn’t opened up and it’s not about one life but many, a human rights situation would always be a human rights situation, nobody is above the life of the people, and while at it in a fast pacing city like mumbai where shopkeepers earn their daily wage in the name of daily sales we need better systematic laws, I am not questioning the management here but just trying to come up with better solutions, up until yesterday people were earning and today only essentials are open, so may be a COMPLETE WEEKEND LOCKDOWN should be a option and a normal human being should be allowed to EARN ON THE WEEKDAYS, while maintaining the Night CURFEW, here I am not just CRITICISING but as usual coming up with my own point of VIEW, I was out and about even yesterday to buy the groceries thank god I got done, but let’s have COMPASSION, it hurts me to see so many lives suffer just because of circumstances, and while at it the NEEDS AND WANTS of the people should be above anything and no I don’t have any problems with the government, well why would I it’s not like they owe me anything…….hahahahaha,

Peace out ! ✌🏻😊😁
Walk the walk of life with Pride ! 😁✌🏻😊

So while at it this post is not a RANT but just how LIFE HAS BEEN and I feel these kind of post become absolutely necessary once in a while, while at it, I am at home following the laws and obeying the lockdown rules, Stay safe and Stay happy, peaceful and kind always !

Smile through it All ! 😁
Ok alright Corona ✌🏻😷

Well I shot these images last year and didn’t end up posting up on the blog, tough I posted two pictures with a caption of ongoing crises, and well my life hasn’t been an easy one, but who even lives a easy life ? While at it have fun and Keep smiling everyone lots of Love and happiness and Kind wishes to each one of your’ll, Thank You 💐

I posted this pic on Instagram on the 13th September 2020 with caption // Oh Hi There ! 👋🏻 #notmissingthesemoments
// Some days are to be the person you want to be, some days are for gratitude and some days are to face the difficulties and complexities of life, for once I have learnt to bounce back from whatever that gets me, it’s sort of an attitude fix, I like that sort of vibe, whatever the problem just face it, deal with it and move on, people are strange in today’s time, they have all the time in the world to plan and PLOT, in my opinion all that gets very tiring, for me the agony of life lies in understanding that LOVE somehow will feel AND remain CONSTANT even if you are MISSING in action or RATHER THE WAYS OF LIFE ! :byshonadewal #amorebyshonadewalwrites//
Originally Shot in the first week of September 2020 and edited on the 15th September ! ✌🏻

P.S that’s my Pet Fur on my Sweatshirt, and I am proud of it, it’s before I got these shots taken, because I had taken them along with me for a drive, and frankly it’s every PET PARENT STORY, I thought it’ll be a right feel of ACCEPTING THE REALITY, and how we live along the lines, so clearly not the MADE UP TYPES…..hahaha hope you like the posts !

Outfit Details :

Old Jumper : Vero Moda

Denims : Zara India

Sneakers : Nike

Mask : Local Chemist Shop